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Many couples live an anxiety about wanting to change the behavior of your spouse! Anxiety: state of agitation, restlessness and anxiety of mind. It is a type of anxiety that often accompanies illness, especially neurosis. We have heard the complaint of many people who come to counseling about how to be your spouse, and how to change him or her. This attitude produces a lot of frustration because the spouse does not change "the way we want and then generates a type of anxiety that limit options and reduce the ability to enjoy life.

Colossians 3:13: Bear with each other and forgive each other, whoever has a complaint against another. For as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

Lessons Learned from the Manual of Life, we must not try to change the partner, but accept it as is and be prepared to bear this difference in the way of being that we do not like. When we accept the lifestyle of our spouses, will be much more likely that he or she will also accept our way of being. The truth is that nobody is perfect, so if I pretend that my spouse to change something in his nature, I'm exposed to that he or she required me to change me and that part we do not like much. Definitely our best interest then is to obey the instruction of the Lord and accept and endure each other with an attitude of joy and not sorrow.

We're talking about features in the way of life, personality or temperament. We are not talking about vices, addictions, domestic violence or destructive attitudes. In that case you should seek immediate help, essentially spiritual and professional know how to deal with these emotional weaknesses.

Moreover, we assume a tolerant and constructive. It is totally normal that the spouses have different ideas on how to handle many family matters. To us it happens to my wife, who often have different ideas when we do something for example for children. I think of an activity in a way and my wife seems that this is not the right way. Both have to assume an attitude of tolerance, to continue talking about it without trying to impose other, but keep looking for options that we feel we both agree. I honestly tell them that when there is a healthy attitude and humble, always find answers in which we both agree.

To delete then this type of anxiety in the marriage, the couple should assume an attitude of tolerance and respect for the ideas and concepts of the spouse. Pray to the Lord to give them both insight and talk on the subject freely and patiently, until they can find answers to both agree. The mission of the male head of household is leading his wife to seek alternatives and solutions with a biblical foundation, not to impose its position simply because it is the head of household. Being the leader of the home does not imply an absolute authority over his wife's will, but rather a leader who leads his wife to conclusions and decisions based primarily on the word of God.

If you've been trying to "change" your spouse to your way, ask forgiveness and make the decision to be more tolerant and patient with him or her. Do not judge or mistreat or criticize your spouse because think differently from you. Remember that two heads are better than one. Join your thoughts with your spouse and have a much more to solve any problem in life.

your marriage and family is the most precious treasure that God has given you. Take care! Pastor Luis and Hannia Fernández
CEOs Happy Together and Forever Foundation